Q: How Do I Make My Ex Want Me Back?
It seems that a lot of people out there are searching for an answer to the question ‘How do I make my ex want me back?’ Well, that’s a really big question to answer, but here are some common versions of that question I get and my answers to them.
Q: How do I make my ex want me back? I’ve heard some stuff about reverse psychology and covert manipulation tactics. Does that stuff work?
A: Personally, I do believe that it is possible to persuade people with certain psychological principles. But lets have an honest discussion here for a second.
Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone you need to manipulate just to get them to stick around? How are you going to feel looking over at them, only knowing that they aren’t really there because they love you, but only because you are manipulating them.
Probably not very rewarding, huh?
Q: How do I make my ex want me back by casting a magic spell on them?
A: Seriously? Magic spells? Come on! This is the real world and you can’t ‘Harry Potter’ your way out of this break up.
You need to get with reality and and stop living in some kind of make believe world.
Q: Okay, well then what’s left? How do I make my ex want me back when everyone else is telling me that ‘break ups happen for a reason’ and that I should just move on and forget about them?
A: Hey, I know where you’re coming from. Trust me, I do. I’ve been there myself.
The real way to get your ex back is a little counter-intuitive, but you basically need to just disappear (as far as they are concerned) for about a month or so.
While you’re ‘off their radar,’ work on becoming the best possible person you can be. Become a really classy and charming guy or girl. Work on your confidence (this is really critical). If you’ve been dumped, your confidence is probably in the toilet right now, and that is definitely a turn-off.
Do whatever you need to over the next few weeks to really get your confidence up.
You want to come across like the happy and fun person that your ex first fell in love with, so do what you can to pull yourself out of those feelings of depression.
Maybe you can start exercising, make some new friends, or take up a hobby or two that you really enjoy. These things will not only keep your mind off of your break up, but they will also help your confidence soar.
When your ex sees the change in you, they won’t be able to help but feel attracted to you. The secret from here is to not just rush and try to get them back immediately. Have some fun and enjoy the back-and-forth dance of dating and let the two of you fall in love all over again.
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