Q&A: Is My Ex Over Me? How Can I Know?
Many people who go through a break up want to know if their ex is over them. It’s understandable really. There are so many mixed emotions and messages between two people after a break up. Here are a few common questions.
Q: Is my ex over me if they are acting mean or cruel toward me?
A: No. In fact, I’d say that your ex definitely isn’t over you, so don’t think that she or he doesn’t love me anymore! You see, the opposite of love isn’t hate, but indifference. If your ex is being mean to you that just means that they still have very strong feelings toward you. You’re just not on their good side.
This should be good news because it is a lot easier to turn negative feelings into positive feelings than it is to rekindle romance from a feeling of indifference. Your ex may be especially angry if your ex won’t talk to you at all.
What you need to do is make an honest and genuine apology to your ex. Apologize for anything you may have done wrong. Then leave it at that. Don’t excessively apologize and don’t apologize when you don’t know what you did wrong.
Then take actions to show your ex that you’ve changed. This is important, show them that you’ve changed, don’t just tell them that things are going to be different.
Q: Is my ex over me if they are seeing someone new already?
A: If the break up just happened recently, they probably aren’t over you. You see, even if your ex is in a new relationship and they seem so happy with their new partner, trust me when I say that they are still dealing with the fallout of the break up with you. There are still various ways for how to get your relationship back so don’t give up just yet.
They are simply burying their feelings, and it is only a matter of time before those feelings need to be dealt with.
What you should do is be positive and supportive about their new relationship. This will prevent you from coming across as petty or immature. What you really want to do is do your best to look good and come across as an accepting and upbeat person (probably the same kind of person your ex fell for in the first place, right?).
Q: Is my ex over me if it has been several months since our break up?
A: This is hard to say. Sometimes people can cling to a relationship for quite some time–years even, so it can be challenging to know when your relationship is over.
If your ex seems to still be hung up on you after several months, then they probably aren’t over you. But if they appear to be moving on with their life, dating new people and doing things that they enjoy again, then… well… they may have moved on.
This doesn’t mean that you can’t rekindle that relationship, it just mean that it will be more difficult. After all, they fell for you once.
Remember that there are no sure ways to know without a shadow of a doubt if your ex is over you without actually peeking inside their head. If you want to save your relationship and win your ex back, then take action to win them back. After all, itÕs better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all, right?
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